Most articles will tell you to scrub your fridge clean, leaving a sterile, empty box for your house sitter. We’re here to tell you that’s not just unnecessary, it’s terrible advice. The panic-induced pre-holiday fridge purge is a ritual for many homeowners, but it’s a missed opportunity.
As we touched on in our guide exploring if house sitting is worth it, this lifestyle is built on a foundation of mutual benefit and trust, and that extends right into the kitchen.
Forget the idea that you need to present a blank slate. The truth is, a thoughtfully stocked fridge is one of the biggest, unspoken perks for both parties. It’s a win-win that reduces waste, saves time, and starts the entire house sit on a foundation of gratitude.
The Homeowner's Secret Weapon: Less Waste, Happier Sitters
Let's be honest: packing for a two-week trip is chaotic. The last thing on your mind is meticulously planning to use up every last vegetable, slice of cheese, and dollop of yogurt. This is where a house sitter becomes your greatest ally against food waste.
Think about it, those cheeses, meats, and vegetables you bought last week would likely end up in the bin. For us, arriving at a sit and being told “please, help yourself to anything that might go off” is a relief for the homeowner and a bonus for us.
We have a simple rule: we eat anything that would expire during the stay. This keeps the fridge from becoming a science experiment while you’re away and means we get to enjoy some delicious, often local, treats. It’s a practical solution that transforms a pre-travel chore into a welcoming gesture.
A Practical Guide to House Sitting Etiquette Food
Navigating the kitchen can feel awkward without clear rules. The key to avoiding misunderstandings about house sitting etiquette food is simple, proactive communication. You don't need a laminated rulebook. A quick chat or a simple system is all it takes.
When we arrive, we always bring our own food for the first couple of days and a bottle of wine as a thank-you gift. We never assume we'll be fed. This breaks the ice and establishes a dynamic of mutual respect. Homeowners who are clear from the start make everything easier. Here’s how you can do it:
The Two-Shelf System: Designate one shelf or area in the fridge as the “Help Yourself Zone.” This is for perishables, leftovers, and anything you’re happy for them to use. Put your “off-limits” items (like that special bottle of champagne for your anniversary) on a separate shelf.
A Simple Walkthrough: During the handover, just point things out. A quick, “We’d love for you to use up the berries and the deli meat, but please leave the filet mignon,” is perfectly clear and friendly.
A Welcoming Note: If you’re leaving before they arrive, a short note on the counter works wonders. “Welcome! Please make yourself at home. Feel free to use any open items or perishables in the fridge. Coffee and tea are in the cupboard. Enjoy!”
This simple communication ensures your sitter feels comfortable and respected, which is a cornerstone of ensuring overall house sitting safety and a positive experience.
The Ultimate Checklist: What to Leave for a House Sitter
So, you’re on board with not emptying the fridge. But what should you actually leave? Here’s a breakdown of what makes a sitter’s life infinitely easier and sets you up as a five-star homeowner.
The Essential Pantry Staples
This is the most universally appreciated gesture. Having these basics on hand means your sitter doesn’t have to buy full-sized products for a short stay. It’s not about providing meals; it’s about providing the tools.
The Holy Trinity: Salt, pepper, and a good extra virgin olive oil.
Basic Carbs: A box of pasta and a bag of rice go a long way.
Brewing Basics: Coffee and/or tea bags.
Common Spices: A small collection of basics like garlic powder, oregano, or paprika is fantastic.
The "Please Eat This" Fridge Items
This is your anti-food-waste list. Anything that will spoil while you’re gone is fair game.
Opened cheeses, deli meats, and yogurts.
Fresh vegetables and fruit.
Milk and eggs with a looming expiration date.
Leftovers from the past day or two.
The Welcome Gesture (Optional but Amazing)
While a full “welcome meal” isn’t necessary, a small, thoughtful item makes a huge impression. It says “we’re happy you’re here” and acknowledges the service they’re providing. Consider a bottle of local wine, a few craft beers, or fresh bread from a neighborhood bakery. It’s a small cost for a massive return in goodwill.
Answering the Big Question: Do You Provide Food for a House Sitter?
Let’s address the main query directly: do you provide food for house sitters? The short answer is no, you are not obligated to provide their meals. As we explain in our overview of what do house sitters usually do, the primary exchange is accommodation for pet and home care. Sitters found on platforms like Trusted House Sitting expect to cover their own grocery bills.
The better way to frame the question is, “How can I make the kitchen accessible and welcoming?” The answer is by sharing your soon-to-expire perishables and ensuring basic pantry staples are available. It’s a gesture of convenience and sustainability, not a contractual obligation to feed them.
Shared Meals and Dietary Needs
An interesting thing happens as you gain more experience and collect positive reviews on your house sitting profile. The relationship with homeowners often deepens. When we first started, handovers were quick and professional. Now, with over a dozen glowing reviews, we find homeowners are much more likely to invite us to share a meal.
Our last sit started with pizzas and wine; the next one includes a home-cooked dinner. This is the perfect, natural moment for a homeowner to ask about dietary restrictions. It’s a sign that the relationship is moving from a simple transaction to a genuine connection. If you plan a welcome meal, a simple, “Do you have any allergies or dietary restrictions I should know about?” is all it takes.
Ultimately, deciding what food to leave for house sitters isn't about rigid rules. It’s about clear communication and a spirit of generosity. By shifting your mindset from “clearing out” to “sharing,” you not only reduce food waste but also create a welcoming environment that ensures your sitter, your pets, and your home are cared for with genuine enthusiasm.
Caro & Konrad 🐾🚐
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Is it expected that I provide all meals for my house sitter?
No, it's not expected. House sitters anticipate buying their own groceries. The arrangement is typically an exchange of services (pet/home care) for accommodation. Providing access to perishables you'd otherwise throw out and basic pantry staples is a welcome courtesy, not a requirement.
What are the best pantry staples to leave for a house sitter?
The most appreciated staples are the basics they might not want to buy for a short stay. Think salt, pepper, cooking oil (like olive oil), sugar, coffee, tea, and versatile carbs like pasta and rice. These essentials make cooking much more convenient for them.
How do I handle food if my house sitter has dietary restrictions?
The best approach is direct communication. If you plan to share a meal upon their arrival, ask about any allergies or restrictions beforehand. Otherwise, since they buy their own food, it's less of an issue. Clearly labeling what's available can also help them make informed choices.
Is it okay to leave my leftover food in the fridge?
Yes, absolutely! Most sitters are happy to help you avoid food waste. Just be clear about what's available to them. A simple note or a designated "help yourself" shelf in the fridge works wonders and is often much appreciated.
Should I buy specific 'welcome' groceries for my sitter?
It's not necessary, but it's a very kind gesture. Instead of a full shopping trip, consider a small, thoughtful welcome item like a bottle of local wine, a craft beer, or some fresh bread from a nearby bakery. It sets a wonderfully positive tone for the sit.
